Your won't find Mr/Miss Right until you do this...
09 July 2016, 08:46
Searching for Mr or Miss Right is not for the faint hearted. It’s filled with heartache, joy, agony, ecstasy and several turns and twists that make some romance novels pale in comparison. Any help that can make the experience less dramatic and more fruitful is definitely welcome.
One thing that one can help you navigate the treacherous maze of finding “The One” is to have a list of the qualities you need in your mate.
A list of required qualities is still necessary for various reasons:
1. It helps you to interrogate your unspoken values and aid you in understanding what you really need in a relationship.
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2. It helps you eliminate the non-starters and enable you to focus on the real potential mates.
3. You are able to work on yourself to attract the qualities you desire, like change of character, dressing and mannerisms. People always attract their kind. When you want quality, you become quality.
4. It helps you to position yourself and know where to get the type of people you need. If it is a white man, then you may consider changing your neighborhood or where you go for recreational activities. For the born again, one may consider volunteering in church departments and evangelistic missions away from the church. If you need an intellectual, you may consider going for further studies or joining serious platforms like LinkedIn.
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