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Your relationship is headed a bad way if…

25 July 2016, 19:55 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Your relationship is headed a bad way if…

You talk ill of each other

It is always a no, no talking about your partner when they are not around. It gets worse when you do it when they are around let’s say in family gathering and you are on a tell-all on what they did this day and how it offended you.

It gets even worse when you now take it out, not to your relatives but friends and colleagues.

Your relationship is headed a bad way if you ridicule them and instead of trying to defend themselves they are just quiet-that mean they are tired and what leads is that they are done.

If you have something to say to them, don’t wait whereby they can overhear and have loud whispers with a person you know they would not like their business told to. Deficiencies and dissatisfaction on your part also apply hear-especially when a relative or friend visits and you cannot help yourself.

You avoid talking about issues

You are not the first. This has proven to be most couples 101 conflict resolution; avoid it until it comes and bites you in a bigger way in the end. You are headed for a disaster. This means, you would rather get angry at each other but at the end of the day you solved it. This means, build and improve on your communication the moment you spot that you never get anywhere. Work on it while it is still young.

No more appreciation

That is what most men do/ should do.

That is what most women do/ should do.

What you do not know is that most couples don’t care and they ended up that way by presuming it was their right to something from their spouse. This lack of appreciation, builds resentment and frustration and a partner starts avoiding trying to please you. Then you reciprocate until you all get in a mess of no longer discussing financial issues, family issues, emergencies because mine is mine and is yours is yours. Sort yourself out since you want to be the man of the house or since you want to act like a woman.

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