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You might be worried, you cannot get pregnant but your man sorted it out ages ago

15 August 2016, 18:26 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - I personally think women, especially those who deal with men on a daily basis, should have as school for everything.

I think we should have a school that teaches women on the ways of men. That is what I think. Being a naïve women and dating, in a relationship or married could be one of the worst things to happen to any lady.

I am not going to generalize and say men are bad or evil or all of them are always up to trick but let us put it out there- men are always up to tricks.

You know the way a lady cannot lie she is a virgin unless she gets a dumbass, men can lie. It is just the biology of it. What does this have to do with the topic in the title?

I am going to tell you a story.

There was this certain lady who was dating this amazing guy. He had the focus, ambition, was doing well, he was shady but not too shady. He had two kids with another lady but they split up- amicably. She was not the too much drama type. This lady was happy he might not be perfect but he was better than most.

Their relationship got serious and now, they were about to settle down. She wanted to be pregnant but the man said they wait until finalizing everything. She did, but one year into marriage and nothing to show for it. She gets worried it is her. Obviously even I would have thought the same because the man already had two kids. So you know it is you. Everyone thinks it is you.

The man is silent, giving the encouraging smile and being loving and supportive all the while. Saying it will be okay, ‘It will all come in God’s time.’

That sneaky cat.

So this lady was happy that she had supportive man at least not like this other ones who would have sort plan B.

She goes to the doctor’s and he tells her that she is fine so they all do not know where the problem is. The man does not want to get checked because he is ‘fine’ as proof would have it in the name of two kids. And he further stays her fears that he was okay with them as they were and no pressure. But she had always wanted kids and decides option B. She got pregnant out of wedlock. Presenting the happy news to the man, he was not happy because he knew the kid was not his.

All this while, the man had cut his tubes, tied his tubes -had a vasectomy- whatever you want to call it because he had known after the two kids, he was satisfied but he never let his wife know because he knew she wanted them. This is why I encourage women to be spies because see this one is a case of proper hoodwinking and acting.

All this time he was acting supporting and loving through her pain, he had been the cause of it but he was willing to let her suffer as long as he had his own little secrets.

Someone like this can watch you suffer for 10-20 years, be stoic and not even be touched for a second but still say that they love you. What kind of love is this one? These men are smart, that is what I always tell you. Never forget the words a man utters and says it was a slip of the tongue. She might have once said how she could not wait to have kids with him and he mumbled something about being unsure. She thought, that is alright, he will change his mind when he had already sorted it out.

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