You might be worried, you cannot get pregnant but your man sorted it out ages ago
15 August 2016, 18:26
Nairobi - I personally think women, especially those
who deal with men on a daily basis, should have as school for everything.
I think we should have a school that
teaches women on the ways of men. That is what I think. Being a naïve women and
dating, in a relationship or married could be one of the worst things to happen
to any lady.
I am not going to generalize and say men
are bad or evil or all of them are always up to trick but let us put it out
there- men are always up to tricks.
You know the way a lady cannot lie she is a
virgin unless she gets a dumbass, men can lie. It is just the biology of it.
What does this have to do with the topic in the title?
I am going to tell you a story.
There was this certain lady who was dating
this amazing guy. He had the focus, ambition, was doing well, he was shady but
not too shady. He had two kids with another lady but they split up- amicably.
She was not the too much drama type. This lady was happy he might not be
perfect but he was better than most.
Their relationship got serious and now,
they were about to settle down. She wanted to be pregnant but the man said they
wait until finalizing everything. She did, but one year into marriage and nothing
to show for it. She gets worried it is her. Obviously even I would have thought
the same because the man already had two kids. So you know it is you. Everyone
thinks it is you.
The man is silent, giving the encouraging
smile and being loving and supportive all the while. Saying it will be okay,
‘It will all come in God’s time.’
That sneaky cat.
So this lady was happy that she had
supportive man at least not like this other ones who would have sort plan B.
She goes to the doctor’s and he tells her
that she is fine so they all do not know where the problem is. The man does not
want to get checked because he is ‘fine’ as proof would have it in the name of
two kids. And he further stays her fears that he was okay with them as they
were and no pressure. But she had always wanted kids and decides option B. She
got pregnant out of wedlock. Presenting the happy news to the man, he was not
happy because he knew the kid was not his.
All this while, the man had cut his tubes,
tied his tubes -had a vasectomy- whatever you want to call it because he had
known after the two kids, he was satisfied but he never let his wife know
because he knew she wanted them. This is why I encourage women to be spies
because see this one is a case of proper hoodwinking and acting.
All this time he was acting supporting and
loving through her pain, he had been the cause of it but he was willing to let
her suffer as long as he had his own little secrets.
Someone like this can watch you suffer for
10-20 years, be stoic and not even be touched for a second but still say that
they love you. What kind of love is this one? These men are smart, that is what
I always tell you. Never forget the words a man utters and says it was a slip
of the tongue. She might have once said how she could not wait to have kids
with him and he mumbled something about being unsure. She thought, that is
alright, he will change his mind when he had already sorted it out.
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