Why your man is keeping a 'mpango wa kando'
24 August 2016, 12:25
Men have been for a long time been blamed for engaging in extramarital affairs or having 'mpango wa kando'. But what many don't get is that some of this straying is triggered by their wives.
Let us try and understand some of the things that a wife can do to make the man go for a 'mlango wa kando':
1. Denying him conjugal rights. When a man fails to get enough in his house, he will definitely be tempted to look for it elsewhere. As a woman or wife, make sure that your man is fully satisfied sexually to prevent him from straying. Do not starve your husband sexually and he will always be home with you.
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2. Bad food. Men love nicely cooked food and if they don't find it in their houses, they will have every reason to go look for it elsewhere. They say that a man's satisfaction starts from the stomach and if the area is well taken care of then he will always be willing to come back home to his wife for that delicious meal. As a wife, ensure that your man is well fed and the rest will follow. Don't allow that bad food to ruin your marriage.
3. Uncleanliness. Men hate dirty and untidy women and no man will have the guts to put up with a dirty and untidy woman. As a wife, you must ensure that your house, body and soul are clean. Men love to live and sleep in a clean environment and the best way to keep him home is to ensure that the environment is clean and conducive.
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