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Why you should have sex with him as soon as possible

16 September 2016, 12:56 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - When a woman says that some man thinks she is misadvising women or trying to get out of her place.

Stop worrying about what men are thinking because it just weighs you down especially when it comes to your relationships and how you eventually view yourself.

Trust me, what a man is normally thinking after he gets you where he needs you to be is how soon enough he can get away to go spend quality time with whoever he wants to. Even if you are the wife, the girlfriend or best thing in his world- it reaches a point after he has trapped you, you are now suffocating. He cannot spend two straight two days without feeling you are too into his space.

Which brings me to this; stop worrying about when you should give it up, how you should give it up and how many days you can go to seem suitable.

The best opinion I can give you is this; if a man gets to place he sees your panties and judges you for not being good enough- that is bad rubbish you need to get away from. I am not saying you be all over the place. I am talking about the man you are seriously thinking about and he knows that. So you date for a while and now you are wondering if you do this if it’s too shaming.

There is nothing that should be shaming when it comes to the person that should like you and love you. If he does not call a day later; that is fine too. At least now you know because the thing is even if you follow up to find out what went wrong, the hurt will come later. He showed you, you just did not care to listen.

Grown men who are into serious relationships with mature women; don’t go around looking for things to shame her for because he is there to make her life better not worse than before.

Learn to enjoy yourself as a woman and get out of the box that some men had previously put you in. It guides all your relationships and men can tap into past insecurities women have. A good man will not use it but a bad guy will. Look out for the bad guys. That is all I am saying. The bad guy is the one that will tell you he cannot be with you because you ‘proved’ to be lose. That just means he was never planning to be with you, it is just an excuse he is using now to place the blame on your shoulders and leave him with a clear conscience despite the fact he knew you wanted more. He kept encouraging you. 

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