Why you should have sex with him as soon as possible
16 September 2016, 12:56
Nairobi - When a woman says that some man thinks she
is misadvising women or trying to get out of her place.
Stop worrying about what men are thinking
because it just weighs you down especially when it comes to your relationships
and how you eventually view yourself.
Trust me, what a man is normally thinking
after he gets you where he needs you to be is how soon enough he can get away
to go spend quality time with whoever he wants to. Even if you are the wife,
the girlfriend or best thing in his world- it reaches a point after he has
trapped you, you are now suffocating. He cannot spend two straight two days
without feeling you are too into his space.
Which brings me to this; stop worrying
about when you should give it up, how you should give it up and how many days
you can go to seem suitable.
The best opinion I can give you is this; if
a man gets to place he sees your panties and judges you for not being good
enough- that is bad rubbish you need to get away from. I am not saying you be
all over the place. I am talking about the man you are seriously thinking about
and he knows that. So you date for a while and now you are wondering if you do
this if it’s too shaming.
There is nothing that should be shaming
when it comes to the person that should like you and love you. If he does not
call a day later; that is fine too. At least now you know because the thing is
even if you follow up to find out what went wrong, the hurt will come later. He
showed you, you just did not care to listen.
Grown men who are into serious
relationships with mature women; don’t go around looking for things to shame her
for because he is there to make her life better not worse than before.
Learn to enjoy yourself as a woman and get
out of the box that some men had previously put you in. It guides all your
relationships and men can tap into past insecurities women have. A good man
will not use it but a bad guy will. Look out for the bad guys. That is all I am
saying. The bad guy is the one that will tell you he cannot be with you because
you ‘proved’ to be lose. That just
means he was never planning to be with you, it is just an excuse he is using
now to place the blame on your shoulders and leave him with a clear conscience
despite the fact he knew you wanted more. He kept encouraging you.
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