Why would a man leave his marriage?
25 August 2016, 16:18
Nairobi - Why would a man leave his marriage?
Changes in a job- like downgrade or losing
your job completely; does not just affect the financial because the financial
now affects everything else. When your partner no longer feels like you are
dependable it will lead to disrespect which is normally the case. It will lead
to frustration with the guy because as much as he might be trying to get out of
the situation he no longer has the support of the person that he is with. The
bad feelings that register from this in his mind can be terminated by not being
with her anymore. At least on his own, he does not have to deal with her
resentment, bitterness, callous words and anger.
He will easily opt for the women whom has
found him as he is and accepts him without any lash outs.
You see the way women are expected to give
another chance; the men react to it differently. They will say they will
consider but trust me the dynamics in the relationship shifts. Most of the time
if he even stays; it will be because he now has a free pass to do whatever and
whomever he wants because he will always hold it over your head.
If it is even made worse by being a public
thing, the man won’t stick around because it will be an embarrassment to him
and his manhood. He will go out to another women to just prove he was never the
crazy family and their demands
It gets to a point, the brother who
constantly asks for money for his family and the cousin that wants to
permanently depend on your husband for everything become a strain. It affects
the financials of someone who had a plan but people keep disrupting it. The
worst is when they do not appreciate and feel like they are owed.
The ones who show blatant disrespect and
you do not intervene but contribute. It gets tiresome.
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