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Why women eventually change after marriage

02 June 2016, 16:01 Shakila Alivitsa

You stopped doing what you used to do as her man

As much as women are blamed for letting themselves go after child birth and getting too comfortable; you have to ask yourself what you did as her husband to remind her that she does not need to. If you stopped complimenting her, doing what you did while dating, taking her out and showing appreciation, then she eventually thinks you do not care. So she does her own things that she deems more important because in her mind, you do not care anyway.

The partnership you promised is not there, she is on her own

Remember those promises you make to a woman while you are dating, ‘I can’t be like those men who are not bothered by their children. I will always be there to help my wife.’ ‘I will be a responsible man and always make sure my wife and children are okay.’

Said every man to the woman he was enticing. So a woman buys into that thinking she has found the one. Only for you to disappoint by not helping her out where you can and need to. To her that is a broken promise and so she will not be bothered to fulfill her side for the bargain. She is here doing everything on her own; the household, the kids, the family…..Why does she have to please you when you are not pleasing her?

Comparing her to other women

If you are married and you do this, just know that is emotional abuse. Why would you make your own wife feel bad about herself? There will reach a time she will get tired and you will never be able to bring her back. Women know how to put up with things, and the moment they decide it is enough, there is nothing that will change her mind.

You neglect, someone else gives the attention

Husbands play too much. You are not there, she gives up, she pays attention to other things, someone eventually notices her and now you are mad that they are doing what you should have been doing all along. That is why some women leave especially after putting up with it for years.

You just noticed because she started making changes on her appearance.

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