Why women eventually change after marriage
02 June 2016, 16:01
stopped doing what you used to do as her man
As much as women are blamed for letting
themselves go after child birth and getting too comfortable; you have to ask
yourself what you did as her husband to remind her that she does not need to.
If you stopped complimenting her, doing what you did while dating, taking her
out and showing appreciation, then she eventually thinks you do not care. So
she does her own things that she deems more important because in her mind, you
do not care anyway.
partnership you promised is not there, she is on her own
Remember those promises you make to a woman
while you are dating, ‘I can’t be like those men who are not bothered by their
children. I will always be there to help my wife.’ ‘I will be a responsible man
and always make sure my wife and children are okay.’
Said every man to the woman he was
enticing. So a woman buys into that thinking she has found the one. Only for
you to disappoint by not helping her out where you can and need to. To her that
is a broken promise and so she will not be bothered to fulfill her side for the
bargain. She is here doing everything on her own; the household, the kids, the
family…..Why does she have to please you when you are not pleasing her?
her to other women
If you are married and you do this, just
know that is emotional abuse. Why would you make your own wife feel bad about
herself? There will reach a time she will get tired and you will never be able
to bring her back. Women know how to put up with things, and the moment they
decide it is enough, there is nothing that will change her mind.
neglect, someone else gives the attention
Husbands play too much. You are not there,
she gives up, she pays attention to other things, someone eventually notices
her and now you are mad that they are doing what you should have been doing all
along. That is why some women leave especially after putting up with it for
You just noticed because she started making
changes on her appearance.
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