Why he is not taking you seriously
09 April 2016, 09:29
It is frustrating when a guy you like treats you like a booty call. He wants you around one day and acts like you are his love interest and the next he is treating you like you don’t exist in his life. You keep wondering what on earth you did to make him blow the mixed signals!
Well here are 7 reasons:
You are too available
When a woman is too available, she sets herself up to be taken for granted. Men easily toss aside available women because no hard work is necessary for a groupie or an adoring fan. They know you will be right there waiting for them exactly where they left you whenever they come back. Stop being too available, make him realize you won't always be waiting or interested.
He is not available!
He is married or in a relationship and he likes you but doesn't want you to make demands that he can't fulfill plus he only needs you on the days his main woman isn't available.
He loves playing games
He wants to keep you guessing, wondering, needing and exasperated. It's all fun and games for him and you'd be surprised you are not the only woman he is toying with.
He can't get enough of your body but doesn't want you to catch feelings
You are misreading his intentions and this is the only way he can keep you on track. He wants to be friends with benefits but knows he can't get the benefits without keeping you sweetly disposed towards him however he doesn't want you to get the wrong idea and catch feelings.
He can't choose between you and the other woman
You might not know it but he might be having a hard time choosing between you and another woman. Do a little investigation and find out if truly there is another woman on the scene and if there is then decide whether to stay or move on.
He is all about the chase
Like all red-blooded males, he loves the thrill of the chase. Finding a woman who wouldn't ordinarily give him the time of day and then making her fall for him gives him such joy. A woman who gives in without the chase sucks out all the fun.
Whatever the reason, a man who blows mixed signals either likes you or doesn't. The sooner you find out what's holding him back the sooner you can move on to the next phase.
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