Why are you still dating the wrong person/people
22 June 2016, 14:02
are afraid of being alone/ break ups
You do not know how to be single and alone
so you keep staying in relationships, not because it is working but because the
idea of being single is not something you can do. It is dangerous because those
are signs of dependence. You depend too much on other people rather than on
yourself. You are placing your happiness
in someone else’s hands. This is why some people have mental breakdown when
they are dumped.
do not know how to let go
Most women are stuck in awful marriages
because they could not stomach the thought of having spent all those years with
someone for it to end up in nothing. The more the time, the more the clarity in
your decisions- trust me. You do not know anything when you date for two
years/. When you date for more than, and you start seeing the signs, it is not
boredom but just that it is no longer working.Trust that and let go of that
are too busy
The other option is that, for a lot of
couples with very busy lives outside of each other; it can get pretty tricky
when it comes to knowing if something is working. So you are together, maybe
incompatible but because you do not spend enough time with each other, you
don’t know. This is when your close associates ask you if you are sure about
someone because they are not your usual type.
would rather settle than be alone
Another reason why we have marriages that
do not work; people are afraid of ending up alone because they are not sure of
the future. So they put up with whatever is available now.
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