When you have to ask ‘what are we?’
21 July 2016, 19:44
Nairobi - I don’t think I will ever be the one to ask
a man what we are. Oh, no. Not because they come offering themselves on a
platter, okay some do but they normally are the ones I do not want. I am just
waiting for menopause basically then I can just fall on whatever comes my way.
Anyway, I never ask because Of my pride and
vanity. There is no shame in accepting who you are, so yes, I would rather move
on than stick around playing a guessing game with a man.
If you have to doubt yourself in whatever
situation you are in and ask someone as if you are begging, that is not a
situation you want to be in.
Someone has to want to be with you, for you
to be getting what you want from them
You do not say, ‘why are you playing with
me?’ being all miserable and or maybe teasing so they laugh back and they do
not give you an answer. You keep ignoring all these other fish in the sea
because you are supposedly waiting for someone to give you the okay to be with
There are times we employ pride and this is
such a time.
I always say, let them come fin you when
they realize they have lost something but if they don’t it is not up to you to
remind them; date these other people and enjoy yourself.
If they do come find you, then good for you
because someone was not wasting your time. But don’t stick around for someone
who seems unsure about you that is a bad sign. A bad way to start any
relationship. If they are not ready for you to be with them, find you
attractive enough, or stimulating enough-you were just not their cup of tea.
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