When it comes to men, I am always poor
21 September 2016, 19:47
Nairobi - It is not because I am being mean but 1. I
am not married to the man, 2. He has not given me any commitment and 3. Treat a
man like his mother and for sure he will introduce you to his lady- you are his
Sad but that is the truth and no matter how
many times this is told to women over and over again, you will still find the
lady that is taking care of the man then she is surprised when he marries
You are responsible for the role you play
in a man’s life and how he will take you after that. If you play a maid;
washing and what not, you are washing and cleaning for another woman’s husband.
If you play his mother by taking care of him and paying the bills or whatever,
continue helping his mother. That is just how it works.
There is a lady doing rounds on social
media because she found out the man she paid fees for and whatever, recently
married ‘the love of his life’. We are sorry for her. We would not want this to
happen to anyone because 1. Waste of resources and 2. She wasted her time on
But the moral we are getting from this
story and we have always been told even by the men themselves, do not take care
of a man. He will remember you just as that. No matter what you do to convince
a man to be in a relationship with you, he will keep you around for that
specific convenience and move on to the next one. Never take care of a man; you
will be the mother role and he is not playing his provider role- plain and
simple. He will look for a woman he can do that for.
If he is not your husband, don’t do it.
Plain and simple. We only bail husbands out of jail. There is this one that
once sent me a text to send him ten thousand shillings to bail himself
out of jail. Notice he said I send not that I go and bail him out. See the
evidence with my own eyes that he indeed was in jail. Meaning he was trying to
scam me; I deleted the number. When a man asks me for a hundred shillings I am
usually asking when I am getting it back.
It is not being mean but as a woman I just
have an old school way of thinking- my role, his role. He plays his role, I
make him happy by playing my role. Not that I play my role, his role, all the
roles and he is not even my husband. Be careful of the type of devil men you deal
A man that starts a date with this is the
21st Century, prepare yourself my dear because this one is planning
to give you all types of migraines. You will be better off without that one and
getting your time wasted.
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