What your favorite sex position says about you
12 July 2016, 10:52
Everything we do leaves a signature mark of who we really are. Even in talent absorption, some interviewers ask applicants to apply in own handwriting while others take the applicants for dinner and observe how they eat.
Though we may not see the soul with our bare eyes, a sharp and hawk-eyed mind will see the hints that the inner man leaves in everyday activities. This does not only apply to our handwriting, how we walk, talk or eat, but also to how we make love to our spouse.
Your favorite sex position reveals something about your character and inner and true self.
If you prefer this position, it shows that you are the kind of person who likes to keep it simple and are not into experimentation and is typically not wild and crazy in the bedroom, notes Stacy Rybchin. You are the kind of person that desires eye contact and want to feel a connection to your partner.
Relationship coach and sex enhancement specialist Delilah Taylor adds that missionary is the most commonly used position by long-term couples.
"Some people see this as boring but it is really about emotional intimacy. The missionary position says you have a sensual bond with your partner and think of their pleasure before your own."
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Some religious conservatives quote the Preacher in Ecclesiastes 7:29, “Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.” They believe that this is what God had in mind when He made sex and that other styles are man-made inventions.
Girl on top/ Cow Girl position
According to Charlie Glickman who is a Certified Sexuality Educator, girl on top reveals that the lady likes to be in charge and have control over the action, since this position lets her decide the pace and depth to make sure things hit just the right spot. This kind of woman knows exactly what she wants, and you usually get it. She is also extremely confident and comfortable with your body.
If it is the preferred position for the man then it reveals a lazy laid back attitude, one who likes things done for him and is either lacking in confidence or averse at taking charge of situations.
Spooning is a form of cuddling in which the man embraces the woman from the back and they fit together like spoons. Lovers of spooning are the true romantic people. The lady has complete trust in her lover and is willing to surrender her heart to him. It's a relaxed position that lets you go for a long, long time and reveals the fact that you like it slow, sensual and romantic.
From the name, one can guess that there is something animalistic about this position. It borrows from the way most animals mate; where there is rear entry by the man. This configuration is preferred by couples who like to get wild and have sex for pleasure more than intimacy. For the lady, it shows that she is a naughty girl who enjoys kinky sex. She is also submissive and allows your husband to ravish her with passion.
People usually have a cocktail of positions depending on the mood.
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