What women expect while going out for the date
02 June 2016, 18:16
Nairobi - I am not saying that it applies to all but
it is something to keep in mind especially if you are the one that asked. One
women will be offended if you don’ t let her see the bill but most get offended
when you pay your share and slide that thing across to her for her to raise the
you want her to take you seriously, you pay
At times it is not even the man that asks
and when this happens, the woman pays unless you had a really good time and
offer. I don’t know what your standard is but men that are serious pay for the
dates and when she is your girlfriend, she will return the favor with gifts and
whatever. Now, if you are not serious, you can ask her to pay and see how long
until she figures out she does not need you and can do better.
is really important
When a man texts me, I do not take five
hours to figure out what to say; I text back. If he thinks that I am too eager,
that is his problem, not mine. If I open communication and he acts like he has
better things to do, then I will let him be and give him all the time he needs
and he slips back to that zone he will never come out from. That is how it
works with women that are serious.
You cannot say you are dating that woman
seriously but after the date, she barely hears from you and when she does, it
is like she is forcing the conversation. That is called mixed signals.
dates need to be something she likes
I was at Brew Bistro this past weekend with
my girlfriend and her boyfriend. A table away there was this couple; I swear we
had stayed there for like five hours and the whole time, this two did not speak
to each other. I am serious. They ate, drunk and when the guy went to the
washroom, excused himself, sat back down and repeat. It was the weirdest date
ever. I don’t know if she did not like it, the place or the man himself but it
was just weird. Consult with your date on what she likes. Do not presume
otherwise you will have an uncomfortable time.
start the ‘chill in the house’ shenanigans
I know the man in you will not be able to
resist but at least try to show that you think of her in other ways other than
that. It shows you respect her and actually just like her and want to spend
time with her. When she is ready for that, she might be the one to let you
know. Showing your hand too early may end up making you look like a jerk and
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