What type of person are you currently dating?
05 July 2016, 16:31
Nairobi - I was being told a tale. There was this
lady dating this ‘nice’ gentleman.
As usual, it reached a point and one person
decided she was done with the relationship. They had a child together but it
was not enough to keep them together.
She decides she wants to move on and she
does, but the man does not. He has laid ‘claim’ on her. He makes life really
hard for her when it comes to dating but the last one, she managed to end up
with this Maasai man. The ex is not here for it so what does he do?
He hired some thugs to way lay her on a
certain road and beat her not kill her but beat her. They did and in the
process damaged her womb. She cannot give birth ever again. So she only has
that one child with her former ex and she can’t have any with her husband. She
was lucky though because the man is still good to her.
You can imagine some jerks who would dump
her and look for another wife since she is unable to give birth.
There are two side to this story; the ex
and the new man. The new man’s is simple, you can ask yourself as a lady when
it comes to the person you end up with, will they care about you enough no
matter what the situation is.
Then there is the ex, it talks to us about
the people we choose to deal with. The person you are dating, are they the type
that would do such a thing t someone, to you? Or they are rational.
Some person you are with, can be the type
to cause short term strife in your life and then there is the one in the
complete opposite hemisphere; the one that causes long term pain like the
lady’s case above.
A relationship, no matter how short can be
the type tha makes you have such a hard time even after it is over. Be mindful
if the people you date. That is why most people are not in a hurry. Not because
they are out of options but because they will know when the persona nd time is
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