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What kills sex in marriage

20 January 2016, 14:12 Atieno Otieno

As newlyweds and during courtship, couples tend to enjoy sex and look forward to their nights together. However, after a period and especially after the baby, sex becomes boring and a tad bit whack.

There are various reasons that lend credence to the above but nothing kills the spark worse than these:


Doing the same thing with the same person in the same place and manner can inevitably become boring. Quit being conservative and rigid as a couple and be willing to be spontaneous. It won’t hurt to try out new positions. Try taking your woman from behind. Maybe she has gained considerable weight over the years and it would be pleasurable to spank her bum cheeks and watch them bounce on your meat while you take her from the rear. The woman can ride you like a rodeo (cow girl position). Have sex in the bathroom, in the kitchen if possible, in the car. You can make impromptu love when the urge strikes; say when you two are cuddling on the sofa watching a movie on a Saturday afternoon and a sex scene plays that gets the both of you ticklish.

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This too cuts both sides. A man might have an attitude with regards to his partner’s weight gain and this might greatly impair their sex life. A woman too might accrue a negative attitude towards her man’s acquired pot belly. Do you look forward to enjoying sex with each other? A nonchalant attitude where one does not really give a hoot about the other’s sexual needs is detrimental to sex life and consequently marriage.


For instance, a man comes home drunk and wants to climb his woman in that state. Or a woman who keeps a smelling weave and expects her husband to get intimate with her. That is being self-centered. Hygiene is paramount so always try to care about what the other person feels. This aspect also covers the need for satisfaction on both sides. When only one has his or her fill while the other is left hanging, the other is bound to despise getting intimate with the partner. It is not too late to learn from these tips and make a change. Save your marriage, boost your sex life.

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