Types of homewreckers; which one are you?
21 June 2016, 17:30
Nairobi - When someone tells you even sending a text
is cheating it is because there is some level of truth in it; most especially
when you have to hide while reading it or have to delete. That simply means
there is something someone is hiding. Thank heavens for passwords though
because some of you would be single.
no. 1: She is just there for the money
They might probably not even be doing
anything but she manipulates the man into spending as much as he can on her.
The reason I call her a home wrecker is because for most men they will even
forget about the family or push aside their family’s needs just so he can
please her. He hopes it might graduate into something more but her agenda is
different for whatever the reason. She is just using him until she moves on.
wrecker no. 2 the jump offs/ the good time girl
This one is usually your man’s fault in
that he can even have more than one and he keeps picking and dumping unless he
keeps a constant one. She is just around for the good times like clubbing or
going out once in a while but she rarely is a permanent fixture.
wrecker no 3 ‘the friend’
Any woman that allows herself to be a
shoulder to cry on and realizes it is creating a rift for this man and his
wife; you are also a home wrecker. There is listening and then there is you
being a sanctuary for someone to run to and hide from his marital problems or
issues. The wife is obviously in the dark. She might be trying to work it out
but can’t because you have stepped in. Yes, wives do lose their touch once
married but it is not your job to step in Ms. Assistant therapist.
no. 4 the long term mistress
The one all wives are afraid of. She is
like your sister wife or co-wife but gets to get away with not handling the
ugly side of the guy. She can be around even for years and all wives do not
like because she is technically your assistant wife; getting all the benefits
she should not be getting.
wrecker no. 5 the ‘sponsees’
Since it is the current rage in Kenya, I
can imagine the amount of detective work the wives are doing. If you find
yourself at this point, don’t worry. These women will eventually get married
and they will not be able to stand and tell someone they cannot have sponsees as
well in her own marriage. That is your karma.
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