Two habits you need to start to make your marriage better as a wife
17 August 2016, 21:04
Nairobi - Two habits you need to start to make your marriage better as a wife.
For once, just don’t find anything to complain about
Even if it is there, just for once, if it is a non-issue end a week without having reason to complain. Marriage brings about a certain complacency where you just have a problem with everything. You are both sitting watching the TV and that is when you remember a bill is unpaid, or what you forgot to do, what needs to be done.
For once, just ignore it and forget about it. Just enjoy yourself and be afraid to bring up issues like you used to be afraid while still dating. It will make the other person enjoy your company more. This is what makes people stop enjoying each other’s company.
Find a hobby
Something you like doing by yourself without your kids and without your spouse. Prevent that dependence on them in order for you to enjoy yourself from happening. Most women become so consumed with their marriage and their kids such that when it breaks up or they are no longer there, in that order, they become a mess. Having your own life outside of them and a social life creates that balance for you that you will need eventually.
It also freshens up your marriage when you have something else to talk about other than fees, kids and what they did.
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