Times a mother is allowed to keep away her child from the father.
24 May 2016, 16:55
Whom you choose to procreate with is very
important; but because you do not listen, we have to have topics like this.
It is common place for a mother to keep her
child from the father; maybe to get what she wants, to put him on a leash or to
protect her child. I do not know what category you fall in. But there are
actually some instances where you might be right.
the father is not a good influence
I wanted to say a crazy person but good and
bad influence fall in a lot of categories. When you get mixed up with a
criminal, you know you have to take that away from the child. At times people
do not have the best intentions and even most people that are parents should
not be parents. It is obvious that you know the more time the child spends
around him, the more the child will be culpable to ‘borrow’ some habits. So in such a case, you are allowed.
his people are not good people
A mother in law that is crazy, a sister in
law that has a lot to say, a friend that is not the best for your child; they
all come in a lot of categories. Women keep their children away, not even
because of the father but because of the flock. You will eventually let your
child be around these people and if they are bad, that bad gets to the child.
If they are talking, the child will eventually hear. If they are bringing
women, that child will eventually see.
you know they will obviously try to alienate you from the child
If they do not like you and the child is
small, the child will pick it up. It is that simple. If they have something bad
to say about you, then I do get why you would want them away. People do not
know how to compartmentalize so even if they swear up and down, they eventually
slip and that is when your child starts acting different. That is why most
women will not let their child around the father’s relatives if they hate her;
they can alienate the child.
person does not know how to keep the personal from the child
As a mother you can tell. Everyone will
rain on your head on why you are being a bad mother but you already know that
your ex may take out his issues on the child. It happens and at times children
do not talk or say so the abuse goes on for a while. If you sense this than
what you are doing is okay.
bring wrong people around the child
They have yet to settle down so it is Grace
and Kelly then, Kimmy and Natasha. Innocence needs to be protected; there is no
need for the child to keep on seeing all these people.
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