Three post-break up habits to avoid
28 June 2016, 17:30
the ex, stalking the ex’s new item
You will not move on if you keep checking
up on someone you consider to be old news. This is the reason most rush into
new relationships, not because they are ready but they see the former half has
moved on. You will also choose a partner basing it on whether your ex’s new
item is a catch or a down grade. As much as people deny that that is what they
actually do, this is what they do. You do not want to date someone who is a
downgrade from your former and look like you lost- especially if you were
Don’t even ask for it or follow up on it.
Just keep away from that person if they are keeping away from you.
Re-evaluating things too soon makes you start wondering whether you made a
mistake and creating excuses as to why you can make it work again. Just do
other things and don’t focus on the relationship that is gone.
A bit of a lone time is allowed but there
is the one that gets out of hand- the one that makes you a miserable person.
After a break up is when you just go out and enjoy your new found ‘freedom’;
meet new people, go to events with friends that the ex wouldn’t accompany you
to and all those things that they never had the time for but you wanted to do.
If you lock yourself up you start questioning yourself, the break up and
whether you should get back together or be in something new.
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