Things you need to change about yourself to get into the right relationship
03 October 2016, 19:50
Nairobi - Things you need to change about yourself to
get into the right relationship.
The moment you realize that you keep
constantly asking for someone for their time which they do not have where you
are concerned. Just check yourself. It might be them, because they are no
longer making the time for you. But it might also be you because you keep
seeking them out for it. You need to have your own life such that you barely
notice it when they don’t call for two weeks. People will be attentive in the
beginning and confuse you to think of exclusivity, at times; you need to ignore
people when they talk to you when it is convenient for them.
Overreacting, overthinking, over texting,
over- everything… That is a bad start to anything when you constantly need a
specific reaction from someone. If they are not giving you what you want in the
early stages, it is not for you to demand it. Let everything take its own
course. If it does not, then well and good. You just don’t need someone to be
in charge of your emotions other than yourself.
can’t play everybody’s part
If someone is not meeting you half way,
that is not a good sign. You cannot be the one to force them to. Constantly
asking them why they find time for others but not for you; it is their choice.
You need to accept it and figure out if you are going to keep yourself around
for more of that or move on.
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