Things to look out for to reveal the state of your relationship
22 June 2016, 18:42
Nairobi - Things to look out for to reveal the state of your relationship.
you like spending time with each other?
Men don’t like taking their girlfriends in
dates because they are apparently boring. Women on the other hand would like to
spend more time with their men but at home-men don’t want that. If the man says
he wants to go out alone, it is because he has something to hide-even if he has
nothing to hide. You need to keep your relationship alive if you want it to work
long term. If none of you want to spend more time with each other, you are
setting yourself up for the long term if you decide to go ahead with whatever
you are both planning.
After dating and settling into roles, the
crazy texts ease up, no more fun calls and the general communication changes in
the relationship. You should not allow that to happen because it will
eventually reach a point where you talk only when you need to like making plans
and that is the head start to everything else.
I once had a relationship that I would not
like to go back to because of the family. Someone asked me if I am marrying the
family but they all made the relationship so uncomfortable I made a sigh of
relief once it was all over.
True, you don’t marry the family but a
cooperative one beats one that creates another hell for you. If they are not
good to you, they could eventually ruin the relationship.
arguments or disagreements
If you can come back from them amicably,
you are doing great. Some of these people in relationships, don’t even know how
to resolve conflict and they would rather sweep them under the rag rather than
confront them. That is relationship suicide.
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