Things that should not bother you when it comes to your man
01 September 2016, 22:48
Nairobi - Normally, I encourage women to be spies
1. Men lie they are married, 2. Men lie they have wives and kids
waiting at home or two or three wives- whatever he feels like, 3. They are
always lying about something even when it is not necessary.
But of course there are just some things
you just don’t need to pay attention to because he is going to do it anyway,
you are not going to change it and you are just giving yourself a headache.
It should worry you and, it should not
worry you. It should worry you when he is lying in a ditch or he does not show
up the whole weekend without communication- this only applies to someone who is
actually your boyfriend or husband. It does not apply to a man that you want
but he is not yours- like you are dating.
But if he is out and clearly ignoring your
calls, just let the man be and go have some fun of your own. Don’t call someone
six times, call twice. It gets unanswered for over an hour, be ready to go out.
When he comes back and asks you stupid questions, tell him you went out to have
a fun, ‘what is his own there?’ He did not want to pick your call so that you
could ruin his ‘fun’ or spend time
he is talking to
He is going to talk to them either way. No
matter how many times you want to go through his phone, he is still going to
talk to her. He will even buy a phone and you will not know. Unless you are
ready to follow him the whole day because you have time; you cannot stop a man doing
what he wants to do. He will find a way to do it. Never tell a man no when you
are the wife; you have just given him a challenge he cannot resist. Don’t even
be bothered especially if he is doing it openly, he is watching for your
reaction- mind your own business. Since it will not be annoying you, the desire
to do it will wane. He will now want to know why you are not bothered and who
colleagues at work
They are a problem but what will you do?
Lose bread because he is spending 9 hours with them? Unless your man is the
boss, you don’t need to be worried. Smart men go to work to get promotions and
advance unless you are with a foolish man. Then in this case, you should sort
of share the blame in his stupidity because you are with him. Smart men will
not allow a woman to come between him, his career and a goal at work. Sometimes
women see things that are not there. Yes, do trust your intuition but some of
you have loose brain…sorry screw! It imagines things. Even if a colleague wants
your man and he is clearly not doing anything about it, don’t push him to do it
by accusing him of something he has not done. Now you are putting it in his
brain. And you know how that works. He is now thinking about it and has to do
Find other things to do with your time;
your man will still watch porn. Marriage does not make him blind to other
women. He will still flirt but at times some things are just harmless. If he is
flirting with a stranger, where will he find her again?
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