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Things that should not bother you when it comes to your man

01 September 2016, 22:48 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Normally, I encourage women to be spies because...

1. Men lie they are married, 2. Men lie they have wives and kids waiting at home or two or three wives- whatever he feels like, 3. They are always lying about something even when it is not necessary.

But of course there are just some things you just don’t need to pay attention to because he is going to do it anyway, you are not going to change it and you are just giving yourself a headache.

Where he is

It should worry you and, it should not worry you. It should worry you when he is lying in a ditch or he does not show up the whole weekend without communication- this only applies to someone who is actually your boyfriend or husband. It does not apply to a man that you want but he is not yours- like you are dating.

But if he is out and clearly ignoring your calls, just let the man be and go have some fun of your own. Don’t call someone six times, call twice. It gets unanswered for over an hour, be ready to go out. When he comes back and asks you stupid questions, tell him you went out to have a fun, ‘what is his own there?’ He did not want to pick your call so that you could ruin his ‘fun’ or spend time with you.

Who he is talking to

He is going to talk to them either way. No matter how many times you want to go through his phone, he is still going to talk to her. He will even buy a phone and you will not know. Unless you are ready to follow him the whole day because you have time; you cannot stop a man doing what he wants to do. He will find a way to do it. Never tell a man no when you are the wife; you have just given him a challenge he cannot resist. Don’t even be bothered especially if he is doing it openly, he is watching for your reaction- mind your own business. Since it will not be annoying you, the desire to do it will wane. He will now want to know why you are not bothered and who ‘HE’ is.

The colleagues at work

They are a problem but what will you do? Lose bread because he is spending 9 hours with them? Unless your man is the boss, you don’t need to be worried. Smart men go to work to get promotions and advance unless you are with a foolish man. Then in this case, you should sort of share the blame in his stupidity because you are with him. Smart men will not allow a woman to come between him, his career and a goal at work. Sometimes women see things that are not there. Yes, do trust your intuition but some of you have loose brain…sorry screw! It imagines things. Even if a colleague wants your man and he is clearly not doing anything about it, don’t push him to do it by accusing him of something he has not done. Now you are putting it in his brain. And you know how that works. He is now thinking about it and has to do it.

Find other things to do with your time; your man will still watch porn. Marriage does not make him blind to other women. He will still flirt but at times some things are just harmless. If he is flirting with a stranger, where will he find her again?

- MyNews24

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