Things that help create insecurity in a relationship
03 June 2016, 15:53
If your partner does not trust you, at
times maybe it is mostly because you are giving them reasons not to. A person
that does not want to own a relationship- you want them to be with you but you
do not want to be with them. You want them to still give you room to continue
doing the things that you would do as if you are single. They should not feel
cautious when you flirt-especially in front of them, they should respect your
privacy; let me explain, there is respecting privacy and there is you making a
fool out of someone. They see that your relationship with a particular someone
is not the same as the one that you carry with everybody else carrying the same
label, but alas, you are only friends and I should not ask. That type of thing.
Everybody should have just stuck to a Nokia
3310 for a healthy relationship. I am not even sure if it had password
People make such a big deal of wanting
their spouse to put them on some wall because they know, there are the direct
messages and those emojis people leave under your man or woman’s picture that
tell a whole other story. You just don’ know and thing is, you can do nothing
about it. Even if someone puts you as their profile picture on everything that
is no longer a deterrent. Just be with someone that does not make you doubt
yourself and the whole relationship.
If they really want you, they will not be
putting WCW and MCM with other people on it. If you are adults, that is a
non-issue. Leave that for the adolescents-in my opinion.
friend with the tales
I am not sure where I stand when it comes
to your partner’s friend. If they come to me with stories, they are not loyal
and second, why are they telling me; to ruin everything for someone, jealousy
or good deeds? If they do not tell me, I do not want to be made a fool of. You
see, you can just never win.
A good friend does not poke their nose
where it should not be. The bad one is the one that slips up about nights out
with tongue in cheek; so you know it is not even about you, but they want that
relationship over. A good friend is the one that makes sure such things never
even happen in order for them to come up.
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