Things Kenyan men do to retain a relationship
31 May 2016, 15:03
Nairobi - Some, not all but some Kenyan men; you
really do get out of hand in efforts of having a particular woman be with you.
This is why most women have these demands getting out of hand because you have
taught them you will do anything because you are desperate. Some not all but
I am also sure that you are not the only
ones, so you are forgiven for your idiosyncrasies.
her a house
Why would you get a woman a house and still
ask for a schedule for when you can go there? Son, you are getting played.
Worst case scenario, you have to ask on a weekend and you know she has no work
on Saturdays and Sundays. What you are doing is helping another man live a good
By the way, if you are a woman and a man
gets you a house you cannot pay yourself, better watch yourself. Any minute he
can withdraw. What a shame it will be for you to go back to your origins after
all that high flying.
for her fees
Educate yourself first then go educate
You will not be the first and you will not
be the last. If you are not educated but you are putting some money aside to go
educate someone else, you will realize your foolishness the minute she realizes
that she can do better than you from meeting all those people you helped her
get to meet. You will not be the first neither will you be the last. Many are
the men that have been dumped after the woman realized her worth from his
There is no right or wrong way you will
ever sound right with relatives. My mother thinks I am evil because I do not
advocate for people to go mess themselves and then bring their problems to me.
Was I there? Did I help you make a stupid decision? I especially do not like a
particular cousin who is on woman number two with another child; already two
children with two different women but standards of living has not changed and I
am so sure he is not done. You know I will not be here for that school fees
nonsense. As you birthed, so shall you educate.
Now this man over here in efforts of making
a woman like him more is trying to help put scrapes together instead of putting
himself together. Rewards only work for people who earn them, people who have
not, will never appreciate them and so, they will never appreciate you no matter
how much you do for them. They will say they do, but if they know the woman
does not like you, they will use you until she finds the one she wants and soon
you will see what side they are on.
all you can for the friend so that they like you
Don’t cry about someone using you because
you allowed yourself to be used. It is never someone else’s fault other than
yours. It is always that simple. So continue doing, the moment you get tired,
you will know.
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