The man you want does not want you because
20 July 2016, 20:38
Nairobi - You know the way men chase women? Some
women, not all do it too.
Not in a bad way, I mean, if you want something at
times you have to go for it. Life is for the ones who choose to take and not
Eye contact does not work anymore, it does
but just continue waiting, by the time you are done the man will be married on
his second child.
Just like men, we also face rejection. A
bitter pill to swallow but all the same, not every person you want will want
Rather than me telling you, to change your
clothes or make up or the way you should walk seductively and talk with
smoother tones; let us just try something different. I mean, the former might
work in some instances but have you ever thought;
might have his own preferences
There is nothing wrong with that, we are
just not everyone’s cup of tea. Some like dark women, others light women,
others tall, others quiet while others like loud people or smart and can string
two intellectual sentences together. At times it is not about your dress or
your face; it can be personality-can’t change that.
If you are not someone’s type, it is not
your work to be their type, you move on and look for someone else.
does not want a relationship
Believe someone when they tell you, they
are not ready. Don’t wait around or try to show some of you good ‘qualities’-
just move on, even date; not to spark jealousy but just for you to enjoy
yourself. Maybe even meet someone better. If you are really what they want,
they will come find you but just being available at their say so, makes you
less and less relationship-material.
It ends up being a friend zone situation.
has someone else in mind
When someone shows you and tells you that
they like someone, take that as they have said it. Don’t say what you heard or
know or anything to topple them off; makes the person even more curious and you
look horrible. Leave them be because their choice is not you but someone else.
That ego bruise should be effective in allowing you to let them go.
are in the friend zone
There is no explanation here. If the man is
not sexually attracted to you because of a long term friendship, it is hard to
get away from being the homie.
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