The 3 things all women want from men
17 February 2016, 16:37
Nairobi - All women want something from men. Here are three of the most important.
Your woman needs to
feel the appreciation from you even when she does the little things or the big
There are things that when a man finds himself a wife or a
girlfriend he no longer does for himself. I was reading an interesting story
yesterday and a certain girlfriend did her boyfriend’s laundry as she usually
does but this time she did his underwear; when he had never allowed her to. She
found at why and it is because as expected, a man just never goes to shop for
his own underwear or sock or anything-so his were torn and worn out. It caused
embarrassment for the both of them so most women were advising her that she
should have replaced them and not made it into such an issue which is what she
should have done. He was now mad at her. Men just don’t replace such things or
renew them, not because they cannot afford but it’s not what they do.
When you see that your woman has the foresight to do such
little things for you without your asking; appreciate. When she is ready to
pick up the slack; maybe due rent, due fees because something came up with you,
it matters to her that you remembered to at least say thank you. Not because
you are being submissive but because you are appreciating her in your life.
That is what it is.
She needs to feel
loved and secure in your relationship
The moment a woman feel like you would rather give your
affection to someone else rather than her, you are lowering her self-esteem and
that will eventually make her despise you. That is how she ends up looking for
that emotional acceptance from someone else which leads to other things. When
you get into an argument, walking out and belittling her thoughts will not make
her feel any better about you and your side. You always need to show her that
you understand her and that she can come talk to you and not anybody else. Most
importantly make her feel beautiful, especially for women who have just given
birth; it is hard for most to get back to how they used to be and confident.
Most men make the mistake of asking her if she would like to join the gym; you
are pointing out that you have noticed what she has. Guess what is going to
happen next? It will ruin intimacy for you because she now does not want to see
the ‘flaws’ that you have pointed
Respect never goes out of fashion. The reason most women do
not like the word submissive or catering to their man is because they are
already lacking in the respect department where he is concerned. She does not
want to lose the little she can hold on to and that is when she will tell you
she does not bow down to any man. Respect your women’s efforts, little as they
are to you or as big as they are that they make you question your manhood. The
moment you doubt yourself as man because of what she is doing, then you are the
one creating issues in your relationship. She will not respect a man who does
not respect and have confidence in himself. The only way you can do that is
when you also respect her as well.
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