Some reasons as to why the two of you have grown apart overtime
04 July 2016, 19:29
Nairobi - Some reasons as to why the two of you have grown apart overtime.
Most people think that the only way cheating is truly cheating is normally when a physical relationship occurs but if that was the case, not so many would have trouble with texting and being closer to other people in terms of communication.
Those are what form the basis of an emotional affair. Instead of sharing with the person you are with it seems more interesting if you talk to this other person because they ‘get it’. Your spouse does not because they are being selfish.
Change of plans
Normally when we are excited to meet someone new, we make plans, share ideal and have the idea that our forever after will still be the same ten years down the line. Not so true; things happen and what you thought you liked, changes to something else. It will create a distance when one of you is still hankering over the past while the other one is creating and finding new adventures.
Poor communication or none at all
The first step is grudges, and then silent treatment heightened with emotional affairs. When you can find it easier to talk to other people other than your partner; it will eventually create a distance between the two of you; especially if it is not something that is going towards effort to revive the relationship but to tear one person down.
Sex is not very important; they say, but just wait until it becomes someone’s grievance. It should not be a foundation for your relationship, yes but it forms a part of it. If you no longer feel like being with your partner and it does not become just a one month thing but a whole year thing, you might have a problem to look into. Is it you, them or other people?
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