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Some people only want to be in a relationship to feel good about themselves

26 July 2016, 16:03 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - You might be a victim. This type is not the type that should be in a relationship because they are in it for all the wrong reasons.

It is not about you building a life together with them but for the following reasons;

They want to be your crisis management

Not be a helper in a positive good way but they are happy when you are in trouble because you run to them. They like the feeling of having stepped in to help you out of a bad situation and the need that you feel for them.

This means; they like it every time that you are in trouble. In fact, they pray for it. Remind u=you of some frienemies? Now imagine having a spouse like that.

If they are not the cause of your good mood then you will notice they are not as joyful about it

Some people support independence in a relationship while others like dependence. This spouse is the type that dislikes it when you went for something on your own and accomplished it. Even if you went in and said, ‘I did this and wanted to surprise you.’ You will not the mood is sort of the one trying very hard to sound happy but they look disinterested.

They like taking credit over everything

That is why they insist to be part of the whole process. If it is good, it is because of them but if it is bad, then it is your fault. They can never do wrong and they are not accountable.

They rarely have too many associations

As a spouse, it can be hard pointing fingers but for other people, it is very easy. That is why they are too involved even in your social life, they do not like being around other people who will tell it as it is. So they focus on you.

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