Some people only want to be in a relationship to feel good about themselves
26 July 2016, 16:03
Nairobi - You might be a victim. This type is not the
type that should be in a relationship because they are in it for all the wrong
It is not about you building a life together with them but for the
want to be your crisis management
Not be a helper in a positive good way but
they are happy when you are in trouble because you run to them. They like the
feeling of having stepped in to help you out of a bad situation and the need
that you feel for them.
This means; they like it every time that
you are in trouble. In fact, they pray for it. Remind u=you of some frienemies? Now imagine having a spouse
they are not the cause of your good mood then you will notice they are not as
joyful about it
Some people support independence in a
relationship while others like dependence. This spouse is the type that
dislikes it when you went for something on your own and accomplished it. Even
if you went in and said, ‘I did this and wanted to surprise you.’ You will not
the mood is sort of the one trying very hard to sound happy but they look
like taking credit over everything
That is why they insist to be part of the
whole process. If it is good, it is because of them but if it is bad, then it
is your fault. They can never do wrong and they are not accountable.
rarely have too many associations
As a spouse, it can be hard pointing
fingers but for other people, it is very easy. That is why they are too
involved even in your social life, they do not like being around other people
who will tell it as it is. So they focus on you.
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