Signs your man is about to cheat
01 August 2016, 21:12
Nairobi - He starts taking care with his appearance
Even if it is small, be curious. Especially husbands, a man does not just wake up and decide he will now start dressing properly for his wife unless you nag him about it and go get the outfits yourself. But he goes and buys it himself, and takes care at night to choose them and not throw them on in the morning; that is very fishy. Mostly weird is he has never been bothered in your whole relationship, marriage and now all of a sudden…
There is someone he really wants to impress, he might not be there yet but he is preparing.
His phone is all over sudden interesting
You husband is not on twitter, check. Your husband is still learning social media, not so suspicious. Your husband is not on any social media but the phone is interesting all of a sudden. He does not care if you even watch soaps back to back because he is on his phone. Who is he talking to? Men talk to each other but after a few minutes it is over. Men talking to a woman is the one that takes an hour. Then when you wake up to pass or go to some room, he calmly turns the phone down or act like he was done. Or in some instances you completely get his off guard he drops it and rushes to pick it up before you do.
You should find out who he is talking to.
He now wants to put on lotion
Very few men, are bothered with lotion. Maybe cologne, if he is trying but if it is also not new and he has not come with a narrative about promoting a friend; hhhhmmmn!
And he is not buying the nice and lovely or some other useless type lotion but Nivea or St. Ives; be worried. Who does he want to see his smooth skin when he never cared if you did? She must have complemented how soft his hands are and what lotion he uses. She does not know he never does no chores at home. Now he wants to buy Nivea because she said it must be it.
He is becoming too chatty
Men are not quiet when they are guilty. They become chatty when they are trying to cover up something. He almost seems very nice when normally he comes home moody and he does not want to be disturbed. But now that he thinks that there is something he should be looking forward to, he is trying to ask you how your day was and trying to keep the conversation going so that your loneliness is not a reflection of him finding his fulfilment elsewhere.
Just be cordial, but keep an eye on his from now on. If anything, listen to him talk most times, he will just slip up on his own.
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