Signs that he will not make such a good boyfriend
30 June 2016, 19:07
My friend has this man she has been dating.
What happened was, they made plans during the week that she
would go over to his place-very exciting! For a woman, that is a pretty big
You clear your schedule and basically put all your friends
on the back burner because the weekend is being spent with your main man.
So, come weekend, my friend is cleaning up ready for the
day, she calls the man; he did not even call her.
She calls the man and he tells her that she cannot come over
because his brother is moving in and basically she just cannot come over.
He had not even told her earlier.
That is just one of their minor problems.
The man’s ex has been stalking her telling her how they are
still together and she still at times drops by.
The way I was on his team thinking she was being a drama
queen. Not such a good boyfriend material after all.
The man still has ties
with his past.
If the ex has time to call you, wait for you at the stage in
order to be heard, that man still has something going on with her. At times we
choose to label someone crazy but some fiction usually has truth. Leave someone
who is unable to cut ties with his past and no time for you. You will always be
dealing with the drama.
You are compartmentalized.
He only is around for you at his convenience and if his
plans allow it. If anything else comes up, you become an inconvenience to be
dealt with. Like my friend above, the man did not even see the need to call her
for change of plans. He is showing complete disrespect for her and her time.
She could just aseasily be doing something else instead of waiting on him.
You are taken for
The whole story just says it all for her case. She is
convenient when he needs her to be and inconvenient when something more
important comes up.
Never is accountable
for his actions
When he is never apologetic for anything, it will be the
same throughout the whole relationship. He will never accept the blame for
anything he does.
Too many secrets
If the man is not open with you; don’t say it is for your
protection or he is not ready. He just does not want to trust you and tell you
what his deal is.
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