Signs he is using you for sex
13 July 2016, 16:24
Nairobi - You can be dating someone, okay, maybe you
are assuming that you are dating them but then you are in the relationship
alone. We can call it situationship;
this is whereby you are always hidden in the house. You don’t get to go outside
A good time girl is different, you go
outside, you don’t hold hands but you are always on call for a bit of fun. This
is why ladies get confused thinking they are dating someone. He calls you when
he is going somewhere so you assume it is official.
Thing is good time girls are never the ones
these people (read; men) don’t marry. You might just be wasting your time with
the guy. Don’t try to change his mind either because;
- If he took you to a lodging on
some road trip you went to with the ‘boys’, he does not respect you.
- Those daring games you play
remain etched on someone’s mind. That perception will not change; especially if
the boys were part of it.
- All his boys know he will not
marry you because he told them from the beginning what the deal was. A man
would rather cut off his own hand than admit he was wrong.
Advise, just have your fun if that is what
you are there for but when it comes to getting into a relationship, don’t let
it be a question of trying to talk to this dude. He already has an idea and you
are not it because of the things you two have done together.
Good time girls are always invited to ‘hang
out’ with the boys.
When they don’t censor their language
around you, they do for their women, you are the good time girl.
You are a friends with benefits but only a
once in a while friends with benefits (there are categories to this one too).
You are not called every day but there is that one who is always on call. You
will not know her by the way because you do not run in the same circles. You
are part of the ‘boys’ club.
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