She only wants to meet me in my house
03 August 2016, 15:59
Nairobi - There is this universal theory that women
are ‘thirsty’ to be taken out. That when she gets your number or the opposite,
she must want to be taken out, be shown a good time in order for you to be one
step ahead of the others, because that is all that women want from men and
are really interested in this woman and you want to make it official, so you
want to do this the right way so that she knows you respect her.
You know men have categories of women and
how they treat them- most women don’t know this. They think just because a man
is calling her and inviting her for weekends they must be official. Women they
want to commit to are the ones he goes out on a limb for; try and show her that
he is the man for her. He will take her out for dates, rarely will she ever be
lurking over her phone wondering why he has not called because he normally
does, if she asks it is given. The one he does not care much for is that one
whom he acts nonchalantly about. You be mad, sad- he will not even be bothered.
You will come back on your own. You will ask to even take the man out and he
will be busy.
You get the drift.
Just so we are clear, it happens with the
women as well. There is the category she is excited to go outside with and the
other, if she sees him walking in the street, she will look for a place to
hide. No show of association; especially one that is linked as romantic
interest or otherwise love.
She is the guy, when she is bored she will
go see, at his house because she wants to eat but please, let us not go
outside. He lives further, the better. No need for the guy to know her place
and dropping by unexpectedly.
If you are trying to make the love of your
life accept you and she does not want to meet you outside ever or if you even
suggest ‘hanging’ out with your friends and she claims she is too busy or she
does not like sharing your time- you have been put in the ‘no love lost’
You are there, you are not there- she cares
There is this guy that was asking I go see
him race at some place. I like racing and rallies but because it was this guy
asking; I was so happy I was working Saturday. I just wanted to go home and
sleep after. I just could not see myself having fun with that person.
Trust me, if it was the love of my life
that does not yet know he is the love of my life- I would have tripped over
myself to make it.
If you are a man, then you know where you
stand with the lady.
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