Polygamy is a fancy way of cheating!
04 August 2016, 16:55
Nairobi - You see the reason why many are now
choosing to openly be in more than one marriage (read; men) and just have it
out there it is because affairs are not as easy as many make it out to be. They
are just draining.
How does a person become a second, third or
fourth wife? At some point in that relationship, they were helping someone
else’s spouse cheat.
If you ask me, that is how I will explain
it because when I look at it logically; someone did not just wake up, say they
want a second wife and got one- just like that. There had to be a process
leading up to it; which is what we call cheating.
When you are getting to know someone else’s
husband, going out on dates with him and you know he is married and finally
have a passionate encounter that led
up to the two of you thinking you cannot live without each other; that is
called cheating! In my opinion.
might not like the sound of it but it is actually true when you sit down and
think about it. Just because you decided to legalize it later on, does not make
it better but more acceptable to you.
As a man, when you do not want to spend
time with your wife but would rather take some other woman out on a date; that
is called cheating. Even if you are yet to do anything physical. You want to do
those things for another woman so whom do you expect to do it for your wife?
You want to replace her is what you are saying; so would you be open to her
If your wife is at home struggling to cook
and save you dinner but you are in some fancy restaurant with some other woman;
eating fancy food and getting back home
and choosing not to eat your wife’s food- thunder will strike you in
your very cold heart- you will have a stroke in other words. You would rather
even tell her not to cook for you.
Second, as you take some other woman out,
please leave your wife some money so that she can take herself and the kids out
as well. Let her enjoy the same things you are willing to do for another woman
who is yet to even do the things that your own wife does for you. That is
called justice in marriage. But think about it.
If you are taking your side-lady to some
fancy getaway, then also leave your wife some money- same if not more of the
same amount you are about to spend.
You are still cheating but at least I am
helping you help your wife since she has become too boring to take out or show
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