Not all men are husband material
21 March 2016, 22:07
Nairobi - You see the reason a lot of women make a lot of wrong
decisions when it comes into relationships and dating it is not because they
are lacking in the man category but because every person that she sits across
from might just be the one.
Women hate the idea of wasting time and being in a situation
that they might not get anything out of. That is why she will go into any
dating situation already thinking that this guy might just be the one.
It sort of ends up being a reckless decision on her part
because she ends up ignoring the red flag even as they blatantly stare back at
her. She ends up not choosing the man that is right for her but the man that is
in the moment with her.
Not all men are husband material. Go out, have fun and meet
people but be open minded enough to know that at times it just does not work
out. If your intuition is going off it is because it has already noted
something that you are trying really hard to ignore or you are making excuses
Don’t start a date checking someone’s credit because believe
you me, you really never know until that moment you are in his house. You will
never get the full idea of what the guy does until the moment you are living
with him. If a man wants to hide something, he will hide it very well and you
will never figure it out.
Look at how someone treats and talks to you. Whether they
are even bothered by the effort you make to talk to them and see them. Whether
they make the effort to reciprocate or they just don’t really care then move
from there. It helps eliminate all that baggage you carry around on someone yet
there is nowhere you are actually going with them.
You spend time moaning and thinking about someone yet they
will just be that boyfriend from that one time and that will be all.
Don’t date with the mentality that all men you meet are
potential husband material.
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