My 2015 dating fails
14 December 2015, 15:08
Nairobi - The year is coming to a close and as a single party
navigating this relationship desert for a change in status I will be the first
to admit I have been taking major Lessons all year long. I have met with a couple of
clowns the whole year and it gave me better perspective on myself and my poor
decision making skills. Giving attention to the wrong people like the one who
told me he is in jail and needs my
money to bail himself out. It is at this
point that I realized that I had poor decision making and insight in people.
Once you go on the first date with someone, not be in a relationship with them
and they are already asking for money from you; you have failed in life.
Maybe you need to
re-evaluate what you need to look for and what you want
If you are constantly getting the opposite of what you
wanted and failing maybe it is because your idea of what is good for you is not
even realistic. You have a list, or don’t but have an idea on what it is you
want. On the outside it looks like this person is exactly that until you really
invest in them and realize they are just not it for you. You do not change the
list but think that this person is the problem. It might just be you and your
list are the problem.
You are rushing things
because you want it to go your way
You need to take a break if you get a couple of hits and
miss. After it, you r the climax, there is always the downtime; maybe you need
to take that. When you rush things you end up not noticing the little things.
By the time you realize it, here you are trapped or you trapped them and you do
not like or want them neither do you want to live with them anymore.
Don’t get in one and
mess it up
People tend to forget when they were alone and wanting to be
with someone. They get that someone and soon enough they get on a high horse
with their partner. Don’t pretend who you are or aren’t the change it up. Just
be you, and maintain it. Do the things that you will keep doing while dating
and in a relationship. If you do not want to do something, don’t do it.
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