Mistakes that you have made that make your man not show his emotions to you
10 October 2016, 16:58
Nairobi - I am not
saying that you are the cause of all the problems in your marriage but at times
some women are the cause of their own problems.
Then they forget what they
initially did and find someone else to blame for the bigger problems.
been married for all these years but in some instances you have just never
grown as a couple or built that something special that you see some other women
have with their men. So what is wrong with you that you cannot get the same as
Your man knows you talk about
your personal issues with other people (outsiders)
If you can
talk about your sexual issues, can you imagine Ione day, your man makes a
mishap of crying around you and because you want to have the juiciest gossip in
the group you go and reiterate the whole story to your group of girlfriends or
chamas? Now every time he passes in his own living room an uncomfortable
silence is there followed with snickers and silent laughter. You think it is
funny then but the guy shuts down completely in front of you and then you
wonder why he cannot talk to you.
Not all your
friends tell you what goes on in their relationships- be like them!
You are the type that brings up
one bad moment in all arguments
do it- rather all couples in unhealthy relationship! You can never use moments
that are meant to be in confidence in arguments. No matter how much you stress
on these, couples still do it or that one partner that never learns will always
look for the asinine weapon to kill the argument in their favor. Do it and over
time, you have killed the trust and openness in your relationship.
If your man
crumbles one time because of a bad deal or situation; don’t use it in arguments
he will also remember that and never talk to you again about his intimate
Don’t confirm everything with
your mother or sister
in mothers in order to make good decisions but if you do too much and even talk
about the smallest things ion your marriage; someone will not want some of
their personal things out there. That is why men hide property, because the
lady wants to go and tell the sister and mother as a boast or whatever. The
mother comes up with demands. Relatives soon want to move in. You never become
part of the decision making again because the man keeps it all to himself.
What you do
not know will not be ill-spent by greedy people.
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