Manipulative behavior that pushes your partner away rather than bring you closer
21 June 2016, 19:03
Nairobi - Manipulative behavior that pushes your partner away rather than bring you closer.
Married couples should stay away from this
strategy because I have seen enough marriages eventually ruined because of it.
You keep quiet today for a week, the a few months and before you know it, it is
a year. Stay away from this strategy because it creates more problems than it
actually solves. It can work for small things and in the short run but long run
it becomes predictable and eventually a turn off. Those in relationships, you
push your partner away and they will eventually find someone else because you
are being childish.
Doing things with your partner
half-heartedly; we can all be so grown up but we are still children at heart.
So that someone comes to ask and beg for you to tell them what is wrong. Try
being straight forward for a change and create that norm in your relationship.
Beating around the bush and childish tantrums only earn you a label.
sex as a weapon
Many women use this one to get there way,
but today, cheating is the norm and in this case you will carry the blame
solely. They will easily tell you it is
your fault and it actually will be because you were trying to get something
done your way but they had other options.
lash out emotionally-you are not emotionally stable
You do not know how to express yourself so
wehn things do not go your way, you lash out in a very bad way. It will be okay
in the beginning until someone starts hiding things from you because they are
afraid of your reaction.
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