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Male habits ladies should be way of

27 April 2016, 21:05 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Being bored, I was eavesdropping on a conversation between two men. One was narrating a story about a woman that is in his life. It seems the lady has genuine feelings for the man but this man has a whole different agenda where she is concerned. I am literally taking a couple of minutes to find the right words to explain his agenda but I cannot. Sometimes you just have to say it how it is. He just wants to ‘hit and run’. Let me try and paraphrase his words. His intention is to do it as long as he can until he gets bored. Being the ‘gentleman’ that he is, he has decided to just let the whole situation go because he can see that she is developing feelings for him and apparently he does not want that. Told you he was a gentleman. He is going to do the right thing as a man and just go quiet on her so that she gets the message.

I was so angry on this lady’s behalf I felt like I want to be her friend and tell on him. But to some extent I also respected his decision. You know why? Because rather than lead her on like most guys tend to do and break someone’s heart he was not going to entertain her as most men do.

A worse man would have kept this lady dangling the whole time. Getting what he needed from her meanwhile knowing that he did not want her. You have to respect that.

If you are a woman latching onto a man that does not want to call you his, let him go. Sex does not cloud someone’s judgment. It is only for like an hour, fifteen minutes or to some… even a minute and after it is all done and you ask, ‘What are we?’ You are just two mammals who had sexual relations just like you were before it happened.

If the man prolongs the situation like this individual was intending to do, it does not mean he is trying to be a father. Look at the people you try to trap. The same way he is treating you now, it can just be worse because now you forced a situation on him. You will not get marriage out of someone who did not want a relationship from you.

I know this nice lady is going to keep calling the man and wondering why he is sending her to voicemail. I know she is going to send dozens of texts to try and figure out what happened. I wish I knew her so that I can help her read the writing on the wall but I cannot but she is not the only lady that goes through such. Even I have had such moments before, many ladies do. So what I will say is this; respect a man that lets you go instead of leading you on.

If he leaves you alone, leave him alone before you get hurt.

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