Loudmouth women are a total; turn off
25 July 2016, 17:18
Nairobi - Before you get angry, I could say the same
goes for men to me too.
Have you ever just been sitting at a place,
for example the cyber café or the library or just a room and you were enjoying
yourself because you liked that false sense of solitude you get in a quiet
room. People are there but everyone is just quiet minding their business.
If there is any conversation it is done in
Then all of a sudden, there is a loud
screech or a loud guffaw. Then there it is again so now you have stopped doing
what you were doing and looking for that person. You want to give them a clear dirty look so that they can shut up.
Has happened to me countless times in a
particular cyber I liked to go to and it was always the same woman. It would be
quiet then all of a sudden chaos; by her voice. And she does not know how to
speak in low tones either!
And if she caught my eyes giving her a bad
stare I think she ignored me- I disliked her unexpected visits intensely
because they would always be noisy. I imagined living with such a woman every
single day of my life.
They are the people you ask for constant
space from and they easily get annoyed.
They are the ones you do not want to go to
a classy event with- they draw stares and not the nice admirable stares but the
disdaining ones. You just like taking them to the stadium at least there they
will meet with their cohorts.
They are normally ignorant; you go with
them to a restaurant and try coach them in a nice way about the forks and
knives; not because you are being impolite but because it is a nice polite
dinner with the boss and you could not disinvite your spouse. They support you!
Their answer, ‘People should accept me for
who I am. I am not a pretender.’
That is when you understand the importance
between staying ignorant and knowledge and where you stand with them on this.
Loud people tend to have bad habits and
manners; deny it if you are loud but you know it is true.
They have this brash sense of superiority
and you just get tired. Dating them is a job because you are always trying to
bend out of sight so that you cannot be seen with them. Or if they are eating
you inwardly cringe because they are all over the place and never in a good
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