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Look for a wife that has her own things going for her

27 July 2016, 18:15 Shakila Alivitsa

Nairobi - Most men after many years of marriage are confused and if not many, let us presume maybe five to eight years. They start to wonder why the wife has changed and is no longer the sweet accommodating type.

While they were dating, he really liked the fact that she used to make time and she would be on his beck and call. If he wanted a date, needed something done or just being there as a supportive women should be to her boyfriend. That is one of the main reasons as to why he chose her.

She was not like these other types; always playing hard to get, never making time, having excuses and giving him a hard time. These ones were always busy and they barely had time but he chose his wife because she was always there.

Now years later, she seems embittered and could care less whether he ate or feels like sleeping hungry- that is his problem. She is not a feminist, so what changed? She just does not like you anymore.

The reason a lot of women feel that way after marriage is because her purpose was driven by your relationship and her life revolved around it. Other than you. There is nothing else going for her and she will blame you for it by the way. Whether you told her to be a housewife or looked for a job for her. When a woman hits a certain age-30 or 40, mostly forty and the only accomplishment she can show for her life is a marriage certificate it will get her feeling some type of way.

Worst case scenario- the marriage is not that good either. You are no longer dashing nor charming, you don’t get home on time, constant fighting and nagging, maybe you cheat and you your life just went on as normal. You have made moves, maybe a business or two and have a career. Her the children are at school that is when it hits most women that they have nothing else of themselves. When they no longer have no kids to chase around.

What is the point? Stop looking for someone you can sit on and look for a partner. These things later come back to bite you and Never in a good way. Someone trying to repurpose themselves at that age is usually under a lot of pressure and you will be the one that feels it.

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