Ladies, if he does these three things in bed then marry him
15 January 2016, 15:40
Coitus is a process that needs both psychological and physical involvement. While men take it as casual as a fart, women tend to pay attention to details and attach emotions. It's thus a cinch that a man who takes his time earns a big bonus in the avalanche that is sex.
Ladies, if he does these three things then he might be the one:
Takes time in foreplay
Even a horse needs petting and saddling before it can be mounted. Most men are a bunch of self-centered dimwits in bed who think kneading your breasts like dough, twitching your nipples like he's searching for a radio frequency, shoving his tongue down your larynx and inserting his fingers in your pot amounts to foreplay. If you find one who comprehends that food needs to be prepared before it's eaten, one who has mastered the art of foreplay, kisses you right, gets you in the mood with gentle caresses, monitors your reaction to his touch hence knowing where and how you like to be touched, whispers sweet nothings in your ears, urges you on when you are groaning like an old Volkswagen, knows where to nibble, rub, lick, suck until you are literally begging for the main action, stick to him like a tick.
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Lets you have your fill first
A good man will does not orgasm before his woman does. He should be well conversant with what drives you to the brink of explosion. Where to touch, when to go slow and move fast all to guarantee your satisfaction. And when you have cum till you cannot cum anymore, when your legs are shaking and spasmodic waves have hit your body so hard you can hardly catch your breath then he can have his turn. If he enters you, thrusts like a maniac, dumps his shit in you and rolls over, dump him. You deserve better.
Cuddles after sex
A man does not have to be a custodian of manners for him to fathom that it is rude to roll from a woman and begin snoring right away. He should let you lie on his chest as you catch your breaths, tell you he enjoyed it, assure you of how good you were even if it is a lie. Damn women have egos too that need buttressing. Sexual satisfaction should be a two way traffic and one of the qualities you need to consider before you marry a guy. Life is too short to be subjected to sexual complacency.
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