Is she secretly planning to divorce you?
15 June 2016, 16:09
Being dumped is the most devastating thing that can happen to anybody especially the men with a fragile ego. It's always important to rescue a relationship before it goes sour. Any help in this direction is highly welcome.
Ladies are by nature secretive and they strike when least expected. There are many reasons why she may want out.
Top on the list is that she has given up on resolving the differences and or is already seeing somebody else. There are tell tale signs that her attention is not in the marriage. The earlier you learn this the easier to put in place remedial measures.
The following signs that she is secretly seeing someone else:
1. She suddenly stops nagging
The lady who used to nag and quarrel suddenly becomes reserved and minds her own business and the kids. This shows that her attention has drifted and you need to pay close attention to her new associations.
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2. New outfits and look
When there is a sudden wardrobe change then there is need for concern. She now wears new cologne and tight cloths and is also mindful of her hairstyle. This is a strong sign that she could be meeting a new person whom she wants to impress.
3. Her phone is guarded like the president
When she starts carrying her phone even to the bathroom, wants to receive calls away from you and in hushed tones, you are headed for divorce.
4. Passwords change
When the email and phone passwords are changed, this is a curtain raising for you to be locked out of her heart completely. It is an indication that you need to change anything you are not doing correctly or plan for an eventual fall out.
5. Irritability and fault finding
When everything small you do triggers a heated argument and flares up anger in her shows that there are other underlying issues that have not been resolved. It means you are sitting on a time bomb that could explode anytime. It's time to buy more flowers and try to resolve any past issues together or with the help of a friend, pastor or counselor. Try to humble yourself and do all it takes to spark the first love.
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