Is sex with the ex ever a good idea?
27 September 2016, 21:09
Nairobi - No it has never been. It is a very bad
idea. You cannot justify it and it just puts you on an emotional rollercoaster
you should not be on.
When you break up with someone, even if
there is a chance that you might get back together; you need that space. Sex
confuses all the reasons for that space.
Why are you doing it?
remind them of what they are missing
Only happens when you are the one that was
dumped or you want to get back together. Either way, still a bad thing because
it will prevent you from moving on. If they suddenly decide to cut everything
off because they actually do not want to get together; you will be left with
are dating again and you are yet to find any potentials
Especially when you bumped into them and
their new item makes you look like a mop. It will hurt your feelings but, that
should not get to you. Don’t have sex
with the ex to try and prevent them from moving on because you are not ready.
You will never move on and some other exes are quite bad. They will keep you
around while they date around only to use you for their convenience. You are
thinking they have also stopped but they will ask you, ‘Did I ask you to come
are already bored with being single
You will never be able to move on and any
person that might have actually been interested will not want to get involved.
People always know when you are still dealing with the ex.
have no one else to have sex with
Abstinence is hard but it pays off when you
actually meet someone new and have a better experience with them because you
are still not hang on the ex.
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