I feel like cheating!
17 November 2015, 19:11
Nairobi - I feel like cheating....
Do not pretend the thoughts are not there
The minute you do that, you are subconsciously allowing them
to take over. A lot of people think that if they just ignore or not talk about
it, they will just go away. They will not because they have already taken root.
You do not necessarily have to talk to you partner about it as you may hurt
their feelings but just talk to someone. Not the one you are thinking of
cheating with though, they are a no go zone as they may help get you where you
not meant to be going.
Those feelings can be the reason your relationship gets
At times you never see a bad situation for what it is until
an external situation forces you to look at it. It may be you and your partner
have not been talking. Your sex life has been neglected or you just do not
spend enough time around each other.
Acknowledge the thoughts and they will prompt you to try and make things
better with your partner. Maybe
re-ignite your romance and sex life.
Decide to leave or stay
You do not have to cheat on someone, just leave them when
you realize that you want someone else and it is no longer them. They will
appreciate it later that you came to them with that rather than a whole
different case of cheating.
If you decide to stay then that lets you know that that
other person was never really that important but just a passing thought.
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