How women get duped in their ‘relationships’
15 August 2016, 16:06
Nairobi - There was this nice lad I was talking to recently who was expounding on the number
of ventures he was about to get into or was involved in.
It might have been
honest and the truth but to me anything a man tells me especially when he is
trying to be a love interest, is always false.
It might be true, but to me no matter what
you say, it will be false.
You would rather just let me find out on my
own but the minute you start bragging about it, in my head I already know that
is a crash waiting to happen.
I learnt a long time ago that the men who
speak honestly are the ones that say nothing at all. You will never know their
business. If you want to date him, stay. If you don’t want to, don’t stay. He
will just not say anything that will make him a prime catch and that is where
women get it wrong.
They fall for the men who flaunt themselves
like peacocks only to realize when she is in too deep that the man was putting
Women, you need to learn to watch out. Stay
away from men who talk too much. Stay away from men who tell you their
business. Men don’t like women knowing their business. If he is too open with
it, he is making stuff up for your benefit.
Furthermore stay away from men who fall in
love too fast or ‘love at first sight.’
Lastly, if he exhibits those two qualities
and you met him on Facebook or social media; it is a lie. It might be true but
pleased don’t fall.
He is just waiting for the right moment to
get what he wants from you.
There is a new scam in town and it is
called: ‘Women finding love on social
media.’ Maybe it happens to the men too but women are easier prey and they
come in larger numbers.
Lady, if he is handsome and searching,
don’t trust him. You would rather trust the not-so good looking one because
that one it is obvious, in real life he rarely gets any luck. But this other
one that looks good in real life and he tells you he has never found anyone; it
is a lie.
He is up to something and it might end up
with you having nothing in your house when he is done.
Don’t trust the one that comes in with a
fancy car and conducts business in front of you then goes ahead to give you a
pitch. Men looking to wife any woman
in their life, will hide all manner of money making ventures from her. The
poorer the better. If he is selling you something on your first new meets and
wanting to put you on a higher ladder and you met two weeks ago- that is a
Any man who is your love interest is a liar
unless you do all the information gathering yourself and without his
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