How to prolong pleasure after sex
14 September 2016, 14:54
Sex feels awesome, so why would you cut it short? Most people think once it's done, that's it.
Below are pointers on how to milk the bliss so you both get the ultimate experience:
Wrap your legs around him so he stays inside you, then rub your hands up and down the sides of his stomach – these are sensitive spots on guys that feel good when caressed. Staying closely intertwined is the perfect way to ease down from the climactic high.
Most men want to sleep after sex, so evade that need by getting into the shower together. The warm spray will keep your body heat up – the way it was when you were having sex – so he becomes re-energised. This allows you more time to connect before the urge to fall asleep kicks in.
After the action all your senses are heightened, your sense of sound is razor sharp. Keep your music system on, and play songs that are soothing, to calm yourselves.
After an hour:
Feed each other something sexy to get your energy back up if you want to go for round two. Keep fruits, like cherries and grapes in your fridge and some dark chocolate in your bedside table. You can rub them over each other's lips and lick them off.
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Take turns massaging each other’s bums. These muscles do a lot of work during sex, so they definitely need relief afterwards. Be sure to take turns.
Drift off together. About an hour after sex, your body has quieted down and you may be ready for that rest. Get more skin-on-skin contact by having him spoon you and wrap his legs around yours, to create a perfect warm cocoon to fall asleep in.
In the morning:
Stay in bed a little longer with a long snogging session, but don’t go any further; drive home that you’re still savouring last night’s session. Plus, kissing will stimulate your body so you’ll feel the after-shock all day.
Get butt-naked, and have coffee in bed. Anything done in the nude turns a non-sexual activity into a sultry affair. Seeing each other’s bodies will bring back memories as you go through your morning routine.
After you part ways, send him a saucy SM telling him your favourite part from the night before, and ask about his. Then suggest what to try next time. The back-and-forth will keep your sexual energy going.
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