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How to make your man to forget his ex

03 October 2016, 12:15 Marc Mbugua

We all have relationship skeletons in our closets and some of them may end up giving you goose bumps when you think about jumping into another relationship especially if the previous one didn’t end so well.

However, you have met this really nice guy but he has commitment and trust issues which have caused him to be closed off and afraid of taking the relationship to the next level.

Here are some ways to make him forget his ex and make his world revolve around you:

Avoid triggers

Triggers come in many ways like perfume scents, hairstyles or a certain types of food. They act as reminders of his ex and the times they spent with each other which in the long run may open up the wounds that you are trying to heal. Get him to experience new things and visit new places that he has never been to. This would help erase the memories of his ex.

Be patient and give it time

Anything worth having is worth waiting for you. If you have already settled for him as your man of choice, then give him time to heal from the wounds of his previous relationships. He may want to experience new things now that he is out of the relationship. This may include, a night out with the boys or a travel to a distant destination which will help him unwind. Don’t seem too available for him as you might end up been just a rebound.

Engage in physical activities together

These may include regular workout or even sex. Physical activity can work as a way of relieving stress. Sexual contact also brings people together and this would help him erase the thoughts of his ex especially if you give him mind blowing sex.

The important thing here is to get his boy working so that his mind cannot dwell on the past.

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