How to know you are in a strenuous relationship
03 June 2016, 10:45
Staying in a relationship that drains you emotionally can be strenuous.
Here are the signs you should be keen to note;
1. If he dictates you. He/she is controlling and is obsessed about everything you do and makes you feel bad for not doing it their way.
They know what’s best for you and you better do it to their liking. They bully their way to make you do things you do not want to do and they will not care about what you want. When they feel that they cannot control you they will find a way to leave your side so you better stand up for yourself.
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2. If he is a sexual seducer. If your partner uses lust as their weapon of getting sex from you. They appear as charming and sweet talkers. They will force themselves on you by using your faults and imperfections. They rarely fall in love with you and will not mind treating you the way they want and never take responsibility for their actions.
3. If he is paranoid. If they keep creating scenarios to blame you for putting them in harm and driving them to do things that are unnatural. A person who keeps blaming you for going against them, humiliating them and disrespecting them. They are not only emotionally unstable but can physically act on their emotions because they don’t trust anyone.
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