How to keep your man happy and faithful
13 July 2016, 08:19
Ladies always complain that men like engaging in extra-marital affairs during courtship and even marriage.
Keeping a man is every lady's desire, but this calls for hard work. Here are four tips on how to make him love you and stay faithful:
1. Avoid using kids as an excuse. Many ladies withdraw from the husband after the arrival of children. This ought not to be the case. Your love for your husband is different from your love for children, so do not mix up the two. Give each the attention and affection they need, always.
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2. Allow him time with his friends. Most ladies say that they would like their husbands to be with them all the time and if they are not with them, they should be with the kids. However, this is a selfish desire. You are not a god to be worshiped all the time. Let him go out to interact with other men, learn and laugh and he will come back relaxed and bursting with fresh ideas.
3. Don’t try to change him. You married him because you loved and cherished him including his faults. If you did not change him before marriage, do not attempt afterwards because you will only end up hurt. Trying to change him might also make him resentful so just avoid it altogether and learn how to handle his shortcomings.
4. Never revenge. Whoever said tit for tat is a fair game was definitely not talking about marriage as two wrongs do not make a right. Do not try to do anything to revenge. Forgiveness is a gift to yourself so reward yourself every time he wrongs you by letting go.
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