How to keep a guy interested for a bit longer
14 June 2016, 16:16
Nairobi - I am not going to say be sexy, be confident
and dress well or smell nice because these are obvious. If you already don’t
have these then I am confused.
be too obvious if you are already smitten
You know I have tried this thing about
being upfront and not playing games or being an adult. But I have found that
men are just not people you should listen to when it comes to themselves; they
say one thing but mean the complete opposite.
Moral of the story; just let him chase. You
can show he might have a chance but just don’t let a guy know straight out that
he has you where he wants you.
need to learn how to be interesting in conversation
I don’t know what either of you like but
you need to just be spontaneous and be able to have a fun, open, flirty and
interesting conversation; if you want the man to stick around. I am not saying
you talk about sports if you have no clue about it because at the end of the
day you also have to be yourself.
Politics get tense-you only argue politics when you are married. Heaven
forbid you mention your side thinking it’s his as well. Politics are a no. I
don’t know how you can be fun but just be fun and not about shoes and bags
borrow money/ be financially secure
At times I think I am naïve. I had no idea
how many women ask for money just on exchanging numbers. If the guy is not that
important to you, then who am I to tell you no; on the other hand, if you
actually want to have something with the guy, stay away from borrowing money.
That is why you stay away from relationships if you are not doing well in the
make a guy feel insecure about himself
My friend asked her man to paint his
eyebrows because they are too light. He asked if there is anything she even
likes about him. See why I do not get relationships? Don’t be with someone if
you are going to straighten them to fit you. You have the choice of getting
what you like. That insecurity goes ahead and finds fulfillment elsewhere. You
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